Wednesday, July 15, 2015
I've moved!
If you're reading this, please come visit me on my new website, www.unspooledwi.com! I have picked up the blog over there and I update it on a much more regular basis. Thanks!
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
How to Bind a Quilt with Minky Fabric (and how to join binding ends)
Yes! It can be done!
Backstory: I made a t-shirt quilt for my daughter's school auction. It has shirts and plaid from uniforms. I really wanted to back this quilt in Minky, because I think it would make it even more appealing. But then, all I could think was how dull a plain cotton binding would be, especially from the back. So I was determined to figure out how to bind with Minky.
If you've not ever worked with Minky fabric, it's notoriously squirrelly. It's polyester, it's slippery, and it's stretchy width-wise. Many people hate even putting it on the backs of quilts. My solution to that is to use spray baste. If you pin baste, you will likely have problems because the backing could stretch and you might get puckers. However, if you spray baste, the batting acts as a stabilizer and the Minky doesn't stretch. My favorite spray baste is 505. It's not stinky like some of the others, and as long as you don't apply it too heavily, it doesn't gum up your needle. In fact, I spray it indoors and can't even smell it.
Oh, and though I quilt my quilts on a straight stitch machine, for this part I used my trusty Kenmore.
It only has 12 stitches!
I lowered my presser foot pressure down to zero and I lengthened the stitch length to about 3.
Anyway, I knew the typical double fold binding would not work with Minky. It was too stretchy, and the binding would be so bulky. After some experimenting, here's how I did it.
First, I cut my binding strips 1 3/4 inches wide. I joined them as you would a typical cotton binding. I was sure the keep the nap of the Minky going the same way.
I used a straight stitch to attach the binding to the back of the quilt. You'll see later why I chose to do this on the back. I forgot to take a photo here, but rest assured it's just like attaching any other binding, including at the corners. I did try to put it on so that when I was doing my final stitching, I would be sewing with the nap instead of against it. I attached it at about 3/8 inch, or the width of my walking foot.
I like to join my binding ends, so here's a little bonus tutorial! Be sure to leave a tail at the beginning of attaching your binding, as you probably do already. Then, when you approach the end, after you've sewn all the way around, leave another tail of about six inches, overlap the binding ends and trim your excess so that it's the same as the width you originally cut the binding. In this case, 1 3/4 inches. If you look closely, you can see the tail from the start of the binding peeking out right at 1 3/4 inches. Cut the end tail.
Overlap the ends like you would when making binding. You have to scrunch up the quilt to do this. It's awkward, to be sure.
Pin in both directions and make a diagonal line from the corner of the top binding to the corner where the bottom binding meets the top. It should be a 45 degree angle. Again, just like joining binding strips.
Sew on the line.
This is what it should look like. Don't trim yet!
First, lay your quilt flat and make sure you didn't accidentally twist your binding when you joined it.
Okay, NOW you can trim your excess out of the binding seam allowance.
Now, if you've ever taken a class with me, you know that pinning is not my favorite thing. When I'm piecing, I rarely pin, unless I feel like I really need to. I think in general that pinning can distort things and make matching corners even harder. However, in this case? I pin. A lot.
Start sewing behind the point you stopped attaching your binding, backstitch, and slowly sew the rest of the binding on. Oh, yeah, I'm sewing over pins here. The truth is, if I'm using these pins, I sew over them fairly regularly. They're very fine. Because they're fine, the needle tends not to hit them. They're kind of expensive, but they are hands down my favorite.
All done! No puckers!
Begin stitching from the front side. I used a three-step zigzag. I think it's much more secure than a regular zigzag. I simply ran my presser foot along the raw edge on the left.
At the corners, I stitched into the corner a bit, then took the quilt off the machine and folded the next side of the binding down to miter the binding.
That's it! I used a few pins to make sure I didn't get a pucker at the point where I approached the start of the zigzagging, but only about three. And because of the shape of the bit of Minky I had left over, it was even going cross-grain, which is the stretchy way!
So the reason I didn't sew the Minky onto the front of the quilt and zigzag from the back (like a typical binding) is that you can't quite tell what's happening on the back. For the most part, my back looks like this.
But in a few places, the zigzag ventured into the binding.
If this had been on the front of the quilt, it would have been really noticeable. On the back, it's not so bad.
I hope this inspires you to use Minky for bindings some time!
Backstory: I made a t-shirt quilt for my daughter's school auction. It has shirts and plaid from uniforms. I really wanted to back this quilt in Minky, because I think it would make it even more appealing. But then, all I could think was how dull a plain cotton binding would be, especially from the back. So I was determined to figure out how to bind with Minky.
If you've not ever worked with Minky fabric, it's notoriously squirrelly. It's polyester, it's slippery, and it's stretchy width-wise. Many people hate even putting it on the backs of quilts. My solution to that is to use spray baste. If you pin baste, you will likely have problems because the backing could stretch and you might get puckers. However, if you spray baste, the batting acts as a stabilizer and the Minky doesn't stretch. My favorite spray baste is 505. It's not stinky like some of the others, and as long as you don't apply it too heavily, it doesn't gum up your needle. In fact, I spray it indoors and can't even smell it.
Oh, and though I quilt my quilts on a straight stitch machine, for this part I used my trusty Kenmore.
It only has 12 stitches!
I lowered my presser foot pressure down to zero and I lengthened the stitch length to about 3.
Anyway, I knew the typical double fold binding would not work with Minky. It was too stretchy, and the binding would be so bulky. After some experimenting, here's how I did it.
First, I cut my binding strips 1 3/4 inches wide. I joined them as you would a typical cotton binding. I was sure the keep the nap of the Minky going the same way.
I used a straight stitch to attach the binding to the back of the quilt. You'll see later why I chose to do this on the back. I forgot to take a photo here, but rest assured it's just like attaching any other binding, including at the corners. I did try to put it on so that when I was doing my final stitching, I would be sewing with the nap instead of against it. I attached it at about 3/8 inch, or the width of my walking foot.
I like to join my binding ends, so here's a little bonus tutorial! Be sure to leave a tail at the beginning of attaching your binding, as you probably do already. Then, when you approach the end, after you've sewn all the way around, leave another tail of about six inches, overlap the binding ends and trim your excess so that it's the same as the width you originally cut the binding. In this case, 1 3/4 inches. If you look closely, you can see the tail from the start of the binding peeking out right at 1 3/4 inches. Cut the end tail.
Overlap the ends like you would when making binding. You have to scrunch up the quilt to do this. It's awkward, to be sure.
Pin in both directions and make a diagonal line from the corner of the top binding to the corner where the bottom binding meets the top. It should be a 45 degree angle. Again, just like joining binding strips.
Sew on the line.
This is what it should look like. Don't trim yet!
First, lay your quilt flat and make sure you didn't accidentally twist your binding when you joined it.
Okay, NOW you can trim your excess out of the binding seam allowance.
Now, if you've ever taken a class with me, you know that pinning is not my favorite thing. When I'm piecing, I rarely pin, unless I feel like I really need to. I think in general that pinning can distort things and make matching corners even harder. However, in this case? I pin. A lot.
Start sewing behind the point you stopped attaching your binding, backstitch, and slowly sew the rest of the binding on. Oh, yeah, I'm sewing over pins here. The truth is, if I'm using these pins, I sew over them fairly regularly. They're very fine. Because they're fine, the needle tends not to hit them. They're kind of expensive, but they are hands down my favorite.
All done! No puckers!
Begin stitching from the front side. I used a three-step zigzag. I think it's much more secure than a regular zigzag. I simply ran my presser foot along the raw edge on the left.
At the corners, I stitched into the corner a bit, then took the quilt off the machine and folded the next side of the binding down to miter the binding.
That's it! I used a few pins to make sure I didn't get a pucker at the point where I approached the start of the zigzagging, but only about three. And because of the shape of the bit of Minky I had left over, it was even going cross-grain, which is the stretchy way!
So the reason I didn't sew the Minky onto the front of the quilt and zigzag from the back (like a typical binding) is that you can't quite tell what's happening on the back. For the most part, my back looks like this.
But in a few places, the zigzag ventured into the binding.
If this had been on the front of the quilt, it would have been really noticeable. On the back, it's not so bad.
I hope this inspires you to use Minky for bindings some time!
Labels:
auction quilt,
binding,
experimentation,
Minky,
tutorials
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
I'm official!
Big news: yesterday I officially registered as a business in the state of Wisconsin! Welcome to unSpooled! I still have to come up with a logo and website and EVERYTHING else, but it's a start!
My focus will be teaching quilting classes as well as making skating dresses. Also, I'll be traveling to North Carolina next month to become an official tuffet instructor! I'm so excited!
In the meantime, here are some skating photos! I made these teams' dresses! I'm hoping to do more synchronized skating dresses as well as individual skaters' dresses.
Madison Ice Diamonds Beginner 2:
Beaver Dam Beginner 1:
My focus will be teaching quilting classes as well as making skating dresses. Also, I'll be traveling to North Carolina next month to become an official tuffet instructor! I'm so excited!
In the meantime, here are some skating photos! I made these teams' dresses! I'm hoping to do more synchronized skating dresses as well as individual skaters' dresses.
Madison Ice Diamonds Beginner 2:
Beaver Dam Beginner 1:
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
Backings revisited
So remember in the last post where I said I'd talk about other backing topics? So here are some of my thoughts that aren't related to just figuring out the math.
T-shaped backs
I'm talking about backings that have two pieces of fabric running in one direction and another running perpendicular. Thusly:
I can tell you that longarmers hate T-shaped backs. This is because of the warp and weft (or crosswise vs. lengthwise grain of the fabric). There is a little bit of stretch in the weft (crosswise, that is, selvedge to selvedge) grain of the fabric. When a longarmer is loading a quilt onto the frame, she has to work against gravity. That gravity is pulling down on the backing, which isn't actually attached to anything but a couple of roller bars on her frame. This means that the backing may sag and if it's sewn together in a T shape as illustrated above, it will sag weirdly. So, if you're sending your quilt to a longarmer, skip the t-shaped backing. In fact, if I were sending mine off, I would piece the back as little as possible.
Wide backings
Wide backings are a popular choice, but keep in mind that they are often not made from the same high quality greige goods your regular quilt shop fabric is made from. So, wide backings can also be hard to square and they can be squirrely.
Sheets
I also understand that longarmers aren't fans of using bedsheets as backings. this is because the thread count on sheets is often too high to easily quilt through.
Minky/Cuddle
This is the super soft, furry stuff that is so wonderful to touch. Longarmers don't seem to mind minky fabric on the back of quilts. Remember that quilting stitches will really disappear into your quilt if you use minky fabric on the back, so if you're wanting to highlight the quilting on the back, minky might not be your best choice.
Quilting at home
So all of the things above that I mentioned that longarmers aren't fans of? Well, they're often more do-able at home. If you're basting your quilt on a table or the floor, you don't have gravity working against you. And though I haven't used a sheet as a back before, once I scored a used duvet cover from Crate and Barrel for under ten bucks and used that as a backing and it was just fine. But, it wasn't really a sheet, and because it was Crate and Barrel, it was of reasonably high quality.
A note about using minky: please don't use the yucky stuff they have at the discount fabric stores. That stuff feel okay (not as good as quilt shop Cuddle) but once you wash it, yuck. And contrary to popular belief, it isn't too bad to quilt with, as long as you use basting spray and not pins to baste.
Happy quilting!
Tuesday, December 2, 2014
How to figure out backing fabric requirements
I recently stumbled upon a question in a quilt group on Facebook asking, "How much fabric do I need to back a 6' x 8' quilt?" Instead of just giving an answer, I decided to write this post to teach her (and others) how to figure it out herself. Sort of a, "tell a quilter how much backing fabric she needs, help her with one project; teach a quilter how to figure it out herself, help her for all of her projects" situation.
The first thing to do is take those numbers in feet and change them to inches. Instead of 6' by 8', we need to think of it as 72" by 96". Quilting fabric usually comes in widths ranging between 40 and 44 inches. I'm going to assume 40, because it's better to have too much than too little.
If we double 40, we get 80. Since 80 is generously bigger than 72, she won't need to sew more than two widths of fabric together. So we know that we will need two times the longer dimension of the quilt, which is 96. So, if we double 96, we get 192 inches. Divide that by 36 (because there are 36 inches in a yard) and voila, we get 5.33 yards. Of course, because we don't want to have to be super precise, and because shops don't cut perfectly, and everything else, we need to increase that amount. So, I would advise her to buy 6 yards of fabric.
This method works with larger quilts, too. If your shortest dimension is 90, you would simply sew three lengths of fabric together using the longer length multiplied by three (along with -- no kidding here -- about another yard of fabric to allow for cutting, sewing, and shrinkage).
Keep in mind that my method above is assuming she is doing her own quilting. If she is sending the quilt to a longarmer, she needs to add 8 inches to each dimension (most times the longarmer will describe this as "four inches on each side"). So in that case, we would be looking at a backing that needs to be 80 by 104. The 80 is okay in this case; we were assuming we would only get 40 inches of usable fabric when in reality we will probably get a little more. Plus, though I'm not a longarmer (and I don't even play one on tv), I think most can get by with a smidgin less than four inches all around. But we would still need to double the 104 number to come up with 208. Divide that by 36 and we get 5.778 yards. Personally, I'd probably still go with 6 yards, but if she wanted to be really safe, she could get 6 1/4 yards.
So, that wasn't too painful, was it? I'll talk about wide backings and T-shaped backings in another post.
The first thing to do is take those numbers in feet and change them to inches. Instead of 6' by 8', we need to think of it as 72" by 96". Quilting fabric usually comes in widths ranging between 40 and 44 inches. I'm going to assume 40, because it's better to have too much than too little.
If we double 40, we get 80. Since 80 is generously bigger than 72, she won't need to sew more than two widths of fabric together. So we know that we will need two times the longer dimension of the quilt, which is 96. So, if we double 96, we get 192 inches. Divide that by 36 (because there are 36 inches in a yard) and voila, we get 5.33 yards. Of course, because we don't want to have to be super precise, and because shops don't cut perfectly, and everything else, we need to increase that amount. So, I would advise her to buy 6 yards of fabric.
This method works with larger quilts, too. If your shortest dimension is 90, you would simply sew three lengths of fabric together using the longer length multiplied by three (along with -- no kidding here -- about another yard of fabric to allow for cutting, sewing, and shrinkage).
Keep in mind that my method above is assuming she is doing her own quilting. If she is sending the quilt to a longarmer, she needs to add 8 inches to each dimension (most times the longarmer will describe this as "four inches on each side"). So in that case, we would be looking at a backing that needs to be 80 by 104. The 80 is okay in this case; we were assuming we would only get 40 inches of usable fabric when in reality we will probably get a little more. Plus, though I'm not a longarmer (and I don't even play one on tv), I think most can get by with a smidgin less than four inches all around. But we would still need to double the 104 number to come up with 208. Divide that by 36 and we get 5.778 yards. Personally, I'd probably still go with 6 yards, but if she wanted to be really safe, she could get 6 1/4 yards.
So, that wasn't too painful, was it? I'll talk about wide backings and T-shaped backings in another post.
Monday, October 6, 2014
Skating Dresses
Like I said in my last post, so much has happened in our lives since I was writing regularly. One of those things is that Molly has gotten involved in ice skating, and for the last year has been involved in Synchronized Skating (Synchro for short). Last year she was on the Beginner 1 team in Richmond. Here in Madison she'll be on the Beginner 2 team.
Well, let me tell you, skating dresses are expensive! So, being a sewer, I of course decided that I would just make my own. Here are some I've made so far:
I'm getting there! The great news is that I'm making the dresses for her current synchro team! And there may be more in the works. I'm so excited I even bought a serger. It sure makes life easier!
Well, let me tell you, skating dresses are expensive! So, being a sewer, I of course decided that I would just make my own. Here are some I've made so far:
| First try. Not so hot. Also, too tight, and itchy! |
| Second dress. It's coming along! |
| Third dress. This one has a zipper! |
| Matching dresses for two skaters. This was for the holiday show. |
| A cross-top dress with an asymmetrical hem. |
I'm getting there! The great news is that I'm making the dresses for her current synchro team! And there may be more in the works. I'm so excited I even bought a serger. It sure makes life easier!
Monday, September 29, 2014
Back in the Saddle, she said
Wow. It's been nearly a year. And the last year of posts was really bad. The truth is, I've been extremely overwhelmed. My dad died two summers ago (about a month after I posted about the new car and camper). We had to put Ollie down. And this past summer we moved (back) to Madison, Wisconsin.
Here's the deal. It's been so long that I'm just going to jump in as if I were never gone. Sound good? Great. Also, I'm going to try to be more useful in this blog and not just
blather on about what I'm making. That will start with the next post. In the meantime, here are some things I've done recently:
This is a sample quilt I did for an upcoming class at Quilt-agoius, a shop in Mukwanago, Wisconsin that deals exclusively with modern fabrics, including batiks and a good selection of Kaffe Fassett fabrics.
The class is based on the book City Sampler/100 Modern Quilt Blocks by Tula Pink. The layout I did uses 70 blocks.
But lest you think that that is really way too big a project to make in a three session class (it is!), never fear. This is what we'll actually make in class:
But because I'm evil I'm not giving out the rest of the pattern until the end of class, when you'll be so hooked on making the blocks that you'll want to make a big one for yourself!
Here's the deal. It's been so long that I'm just going to jump in as if I were never gone. Sound good? Great. Also, I'm going to try to be more useful in this blog and not just
blather on about what I'm making. That will start with the next post. In the meantime, here are some things I've done recently:
This is a sample quilt I did for an upcoming class at Quilt-agoius, a shop in Mukwanago, Wisconsin that deals exclusively with modern fabrics, including batiks and a good selection of Kaffe Fassett fabrics.
The class is based on the book City Sampler/100 Modern Quilt Blocks by Tula Pink. The layout I did uses 70 blocks.
But lest you think that that is really way too big a project to make in a three session class (it is!), never fear. This is what we'll actually make in class:
But because I'm evil I'm not giving out the rest of the pattern until the end of class, when you'll be so hooked on making the blocks that you'll want to make a big one for yourself!
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Finished curtains commission
Monday, September 23, 2013
Curtains!
I've taken on a commission that's unusual for me: curtains!
These are about as simple as curtains get, in that they have no grommets or even a rod pocket.
I can't wait until I can show you the finished product!
Saturday, August 24, 2013
In search of pithy comeback
Internet, I need your advice. Yes, this goes for you non-quilters too. Periodically, I find myself in a conversation with someone that goes something like this:
Me: "I'm a quilter."
Her: "Oh, I don't have time for quilting."
This is typically said in a relatively snobby tone. As if I had more than 24 hours each day. I really need a comeback that is more politically correct than, "Well you seem to have time to be a bitch."
Any thoughts?
Thursday, August 1, 2013
New directions
So, I just discovered that there's a blogger app. This means ill be posting a lot more. Frankly, I only sit down at the computer two or three times during the week and chances are all of my photos won't be updated, or I am in a rush, or I just don't think of it. But now? I can dictate, take a photo, repeat ad nauseum. Whee!
And I'm going to post more non-quilting posts. I just have things to say.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
St. Catherine's Commission
I recently finished a big commission for St. Catherine's School in Richmond. Every fall they have an auction to raise money for the school. The second graders (who are now rising third graders) all created blocks which I made into a quilt. In the center I appliqued the St. Catherine's daisy logo, and hand embroidered the name of the school and the grade the girls were in. I quilted the whole thing with daisies. On the back is patterened Minkee fabric (again with daisies)! This quilt is a whopping 84 x 100 inches (queen size) and had deluxe batting on the inside. And yes, I did the whole thing on my home machine!
Monday, April 29, 2013
Testing
Sunday, December 16, 2012
t-shirt commission
I completed another t-shirt commission this month. This one was for the brother of the person I did it for last time. I think I like this one better! The backing is the same red fabric as the background.
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Why I'm a Democrat
I know who I’m going to vote for in the upcoming election.
In fact, unless something radically changes, I know that I’m going to vote for Democrats
in the next election, and the one after that, and the one after that.
This doesn’t have anything to do with debates, political
ads, blogs, or any information that’s been put forth by the candidates or the
parties. In fact, I’ve been avoiding the news for the last few years because
watching it was simply too stressful. I couldn’t sleep because I would worry
about things that were, quite frankly, out of my control. If something major
happens, I find out from other people and I seek the information out.
Uninformed? Maybe about the daily goings-on. But I’m also not misinformed,
which is what ends up happening to people who only watch one news channel or
get their information from one source.
No, me being a Democrat goes deeper than sound bites. It’s
an ideology. I was actually brought up by a white, conservative, upper middle
class, Catholic family. My sisters are all Republicans, as was my dad, and my
high school was 99% white. Literally. I think there were four African-American
students in my graduating class. Four.
So why do I feel so strongly and so differently from my
family? I’ll try to explain in this essay. Please understand that much of what
I’m writing has to do with the way I feel in my core, and therefore don’t need
to be argued with. Arguing with me about whether I should have a certain
opinion is like telling me I’m wrong because purple is my favorite color.
Also, just because I say I am Democrat does not mean I do
not listen and try to understand candidates regarding various topics. Certainly
I do not agree 100% with every Democrat on every single issue. But the
Democratic way of thinking fits in with my core values.
I need to clarify that in this writing I may make some
generalizations. If I say, “Democrats think” or “Republicans think” something,
I do not mean that 100% of them think that. It’s a generalization. There are
exceptions to every rule, and I know that. Which brings me to my first point:
Bad apples
There are bad apples in every group of people. It doesn’t
matter what group. If it’s big enough to have other people forming opinions
about it, there will be at least one loudmouth who ruins the image for the rest
of the people.
I’m a Humanist. That means that I don’t believe in a higher
power – which makes me an Atheist -- but I do think that people have a moral
and ethical obligation to be good to each other and treat other people with
respect and kindness. But there are enough Atheists that belittle and ridicule
religious people that they have given Atheism a bad name. In fact, being an Atheist
puts me in the most hated
group in America, besides rapists (yay… for us?). Of course, the loud Atheists
have every right to say what they need to. It’s just not helping the image of
my group. But most Atheists, like most religious people, are respectful of
others’ beliefs and don’t make a big deal out of it.
African-Americans have an even rougher time. Not only are
there bad apples in their group, just like any other, but they have the
disadvantage of their minority status being instantly recognizable from several
feet away. This means that people who are prone to negatively stereotype them
will have done so before they’ve even had a chance to shake hands or say a word.
At least I can keep my Atheism hidden if I choose to do so. I’ve often thought
about wearing a pin that says “I’m an Atheist” every day for a year and
document what happens to me, but frankly, while I’m the mother of a child young
enough to not be able to defend herself, I won’t do it. I actually worry enough
about her safety to take that chance. I can hardly imagine what it was like in
the South in the 60s for African-Americans.
Yes, there are also bad apples in Christianity (Westboro Baptist Church, anyone?). Of
course I realize that most Christians think the WBC is disgusting. In fact,
some Christians may find it surprising that I, as a Humanist, agree with most
of the messages in the New Testament.
So when it comes to groups that you don’t agree with, please
do not use one member of that group as a representation of the whole. If
they’ve made the 24 hour news channel, chances are good that they’re a
sensationalist version of that group’s opinion.
The sad thing about the bad apple concept is that the
Republican bad apples tend to be those in power, be it political or business.
Democrat bad apples are poor, relatively powerless individuals.
Nothing is perfect
It drives me crazy when people attack a good idea because
it’s not perfect. When dealing with issues as complex as the environment,
health care, education, and everything else the nation has to deal with, no
solution is going to be perfect. It’s as simple as that. Is Obama’s health care
act perfect? No. It’s impossible for any act to be perfect for every citizen.
I was reading about wind power a few years ago and there was
an environmental group that was against windmills being put up because some
birds would get injured from flying into them. This makes me crazy. Yes, some
individual birds may be killed. That’s sad, no doubt. But wind is one of the
most obvious resources we have and to shoot down the idea because it’s not
perfect is simply counterproductive. No, the windmill isn’t perfect, but it’s
better than fossil fuels and it’s the best thing we can do right now.
(Generalizing again; we have solar and geothermal and other things, but that’s
not the point here.)
Is my Prius the best car for gas mileage? Well, no, because
there are electric cars coming out. But it was the best when I bought it and
it’s got twice the mileage of my old car. If everyone traded in their cars for
hybrids it would cut down on gas consumption significantly. Would it be
perfect? No. Does the production of the battery in my Prius have its own
environmental considerations? Yes, it does. However, it was the best I could do
at the time to cut down on my own personal carbon footprint. The point is, I
did what I could. I needed a new vehicle so I chose the most energy efficient
one that would suit my needs. I know someone who doesn’t recycle because she doesn’t
use that many cans. Why does that make a difference? Someone else doesn’t
recycle because she lives way far out in the country and they don’t offer
recycling. In her case, taking a special trip to the recycling center may very
well offset the benefits of the actual recycling. I don’t know in her case. But
the one with the curbside recycling service? That’s just lazy. And yes, I know
that in many cases not everything is recycled and it ends up in the landfill
anyway. But that is improving, and this is just one example of the entire
point. Remember, this concept applies as well to health care, education, and a
host of other big, complicated issues.
Love and sex
Gay people are born gay. I realize that not everyone
believes that. But hear me out.
Being gay is very similar to being left-handed. If you’re
born left-handed, you can’t help it. Now, if you were born left-handed early in
the 20th century or before, you were probably taught, not kindly, to
be right-handed. For some, it worked. For others, it didn’t, or it caused years
of frustration.
Being gay is the same way. If someone is born gay, they can
be influenced heavily by environmental factors and their family to be straight.
And some gay people live a life of misery trying to fit into the mold that
their family and society wanted them to fit into. They could be married and
have kids. Just like someone who was left handed may have been forced to learn
to write with their right hand.
People who think that being gay is a choice haven’t
successfully put themselves in the gay person’s shoes. Why would any person
choose to live a life of ridicule and bullying? Most people who are gay say they
realized it around puberty. This is the same time that straight people start to
notice others in a sexual and affectionate way.
If I had been born gay and was raised in a gay-friendly
home, I would be more likely to come out earlier. Being in the gay-friendly
home wouldn’t have been what made me gay; being in a supportive environment
would make me come out earlier.
So let’s discuss the marriage thing.
A friend once disparagingly commented that she thought gay
people were “weird.” Well, fine. I think that people who find pleasure in
killing animals (i.e., hunters) are weird, too. I’m not saying I wouldn’t kill
an animal for food if my family depended on it, but I wouldn’t enjoy it. Do I
think that hunters shouldn’t be able to marry each other? Of course not.
But wait, that had nothing to do with sex, so it’s
irrelevant, you say. Okay, fine. Here’s another example: furries. You know, the
people who have a fetish where they dress up like animals and have sex. I think
that’s kind of weird. But that doesn’t mean I have the right to say they can’t
marry each other. I really couldn’t care
less whether they get married. But be certain that if someone were to propose a
bill saying that furries shouldn’t be able to marry each other, I’d be as
against it as I am against bills that say gay people can’t marry.
You don’t have to like the idea of two men having sex, but
to say they don’t have the right to marry each other is as ill-conceived as me
saying that two straight people who are
into water sports shouldn’t be able to marry each other. And news flash: gay
people don’t do anything different than straight people do!
The gay rights issue is really a human rights issue. 100
years from now, people will look back and the laws being passed that say that a
marriage should only be between a man and a woman are as archaic as those
saying that people of different races shouldn’t be able to marry, or women
shouldn’t be able to vote.
The environment
Climate change is a fact. If you find a scientist that says
it’s not, either they’re being paid off by some big corporation or they’re
looking at numbers that the rest of the scientific community have refuted.
But here’s the thing that never seems to be said: Democrats
wish climate change wasn’t a problem too.
Republicans seem to think that the Democrats want climate change to be a problem.
They seem to think that liberals are all somehow profiting from the sale of
wind generators and solar panels and electric cars. It’s not true! Liberals
don’t want to have to do all this work to come up with clean energy resources.
It’s a lot of work! I wish I could drive any car I wanted and buy anything
without it having an impact on the planet. We aren’t benefitting from this at
all. It’s a long, hard, scary road ahead of us. It’s just that Democrats have realized
that we as humans have a huge problem that will be less of a problem the sooner
we get to solving it.
It is our job to do what we can to turn around the
environment issue as quickly as possible. After seeing An Inconvenient Truth, I couldn’t sleep for a week. I wanted to
write a letter to my daughter apologizing for bringing her into a world which I
was fairly convinced was going to be a wreck by the time she’s an adult. That
still may be true, but I know that I’m doing everything that I can to make the
environment a little better. One thing I can do to save resources is to drive a
fuel-efficient car. Another is to elect politicians who view the environment as
a big issue. Yes, there are parties who are even more environmentally conscious
than Democrats, but given the likelihood of them actually getting into office,
I don’t want to waste my vote.
Health care
The health care bill isn’t perfect, I know. But at least
it’s something closer to care for everyone. I have a friend who hurt her back.
Her husband had a good job but he couldn’t afford the family rate for health
insurance. My friend had a part time job which didn’t provide any health
insurance. My friend waited, in pain, for weeks before she finally had to go to
the emergency room. She lost time at work. She couldn’t do what she needed to
do at home. If she had had health insurance, she could have gone to see a
family practice doctor when the problem was small. Instead she was forced to
wait until her pain was unbearable. She is in a program where she doesn’t have
to pay more than a certain amount for an emergency room visit, so this
particular issue didn’t bankrupt her, but if she had a major problem, it easily
could have ruined her family’s life.
Most people have some sort of health insurance. If someone
doesn’t, and they have to have emergency care, they can get it. But if they
can’t afford the bill and the hospital has to pick it up, it means higher
hospital costs for everyone. Higher costs means higher premiums for people
paying for insurance.
Besides the cost factor, there’s the humanity factor. Call
me soft, but I can’t bear the thought of someone in pain or forgoing crucial
medical procedures because it might bankrupt their family. No one should die or
be disabled because they can’t afford insurance.
Although I’m an Atheist, I actually agree with many of the
messages in the bible. For example, in Matthew 25:31-46, Jesus tells a story
about God sorting out the good people from the bad. He says to one group, “when
I was sick, you healed me; when I was hungry, you gave me food.” They reply
that no, they hadn’t done those things. But then Jesus says, “When you did it
for anyone, no matter how poor or their lot in life, you did it for me.” What
he’s saying is that your morals are set by how you treat the lowest of the low.
That, in a nutshell, is Humanism. It also seems so basic to me. How are you
treating your fellow humans well if you feel it’s more important to save money
personally than it is to give health care to those who can’t afford it? It’s
inhuman, to me. Not to mention the reciprocal benefits. Healthy people are able
to work and pay taxes. Healthy people are able to learn more in schools.
Healthy people benefit society.
Yes, there may be a few bad apples that spoil it. There
always will be. But the pros outweigh the cons so far on this one.
Women’s health, abortion, etc.
I get the problem that people have with abortion. I really
do. The idea of destroying what is almost a baby, a potential child, is
terrible. But there are few things to keep in mind.
When the egg is first fertilized, it’s no more a baby than
an acorn is an oak tree. But the closer to birth you get, the less like a blob
and the more like a baby it is. No one wants to kill a baby, after all.
Which is why no sane woman is going to have an abortion in
the later months unless there is a dire need to. She’s just not going to do it.
And the idea that women use abortion as a form of birth control is
preposterous. Abortions are expensive, painful, and depressing. Condoms, the
pill, and diaphragms are much cheaper and easier.
And Planned Parenthood does way more than provide abortions.
I used them as my GYN when I was in my 20s. I didn’t have a primary care
provider, so PP was the only regular health care I received. Oh and the Madison
clinic didn’t perform abortions. That was a different place.
Women have many reasons for
having abortions. Most of them have to do with lack of money or single
parenthood. I would think that if the Republicans don’t want people to be able
to have abortions, they should be more willing to do things to keep people from
being poor, like raising the minimum wage or providing better education or,
dare I say it, health insurance. They can’t have it both ways.
Economics
I don’t claim to have total knowledge of the economic
situation we’re in. But I do know this: I think that America is better off when
the number of people living below the poverty line is kept to a minimum. Most people,
even those in the upper classes, benefit when the entire economy is healthy.
When I first got out of college, I had a job which involved,
among other things, selling ads for a magazine. Even then I knew that more
people working meant more small businesses which meant more ad sales for me,
and therefore more commission. Trickle down economics seems ridiculous, even to
me. It’s an excuse for the rich to get richer. Instead, the lower classes
getting more money means they spend more, and it means more profits for the
corporations and even the wealthier among us. Now that my household makes well
over the $16,000 a year I made then, I am happy to pay more taxes. If I’m
making more money, I can afford more taxes.
After the magazine job, I started working in tech support. I
made a bit more money. But after living in five different apartments I decided
I was done renting and wanted to buy a house. Because my income was low enough
and I was a first-time home buyer, I qualified for a WHEDA (Wisconsin Housing
and Economic Development Authority) loan.
I got a government handout. Anyone who knows me knows that I worked hard,
got a better job, enhanced my skills, got married and eventually bought a
better house. If I had not gotten that WHEDA loan, I might not have bought a
house in it that what we want for those who live below the poverty line?
Reading Atlas Shrugged
is on my list, but I know enough about the book to say this: there are a lot
more people who think they are John Galt than really are John Galt. I know I’m
not. And tea partiers need to realize that the original tea party happened
because of lack of representation. That’s simply not the case in today’s
America.
Other issues
There are lots of issues I haven’t touched upon: education,
foreign policy, military spending, gun rights, etc. This essay is not meant to
be an all-encompassing defense of the Democrats; rather, it’s intended to
explain my feelings on certain topics. Although education is important, and the
state of public education is bad enough that I have elected to put my daughter
into a $12,000-per-year private school, I don’t know enough about the topic to
pose good arguments. The same with foreign policy and military spending (though
you can probably guess that I opt for the non-violent approach first). The
other topics I outlined simply are more important to me at this point in my
life.
Incongruities
There are some things which I have a hard time reconciling
when it comes to Republicans. One is that they tout local business, yet they
want to spend the least amount of money so they shop at Walmart. They want government
to stay out of their personal lives when it comes to guns, but they sure don’t
mind it getting into people’s business regarding women’s rights, gay rights, or
illegal drugs. They laud the Greatest Generation yet they refuse to make
sacrifices for the good of the country. They cry, “What about the children?”
yet they don’t care to work to better the environment for future generations.
So there you have it
I know this essay has not touched upon the specific actions
that each candidate has taken in the past (or intends to, based on his election
promises). For that, please see my friend Dan’s very thoroughly investigated essay
on his blog.
No, my intention was to explain my outlook as it applies to
politics in general: treat other human beings well and with respect, and have
faith in their level of intelligence. Let those who don’t deserve the respect
or have the intelligence fall to the wayside; don’t neglect those in need just
because of those who aren’t deserving. To sum it up, human dignity will always trump money. It’s the basis of Humanism,
and it’s my outlook on life.
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